I need to go outside

Go to the bank, the supermarket, daiso. But it’s so hot and I don’t want to move T.T

Anonymous said: I bet anon is probably talking about your blog description "I had my first bite of Korean culture and hot k-guys in 2010." since you really don't talk about it at all in your blog posts these days.

oh that might be it!

el-does-china:

enseoulment:

politicalsexkitten:

yukaryote:

Why Guys Like Asian Girls - Anna Akana

Everyone needs to watch this video. Now.

100% on point especially about men thinking that having “yellow fever” is a compliment and we’re supposed to be flattered by it. It’s the #1 way to parade around your blatant racism.

also side-eyeing the ladies who like “k-boys”

This is something that I’m always trying to be aware of, since clearly I do have a history of liking and being attracted to Asian guys. However, I don’t exclusively date Asian men nor do I have a reason for thinking that they’re better to date. Grouping people together and saying, for example, that “all Asian men/women are better to date because_________” is racist. Like white guys who say Asian women are more feminine/docile/alluring/shy/whatever. It’s racist. Straight up. You can’t just assume an entire race of people has the feature you’re looking for just because of their race.

That being said, I am attracted to Asian men. It’s something that I try to think about consciously. I don’t have a reason though. But when I was back in the states, I saw plenty of guys who weren’t Asian that I found attractive and would have pursued had I not been in a relationship. But I think that the fact that I’m attracted to Asian men at all (and also that I dated a Chinese guy for four years) is what makes some people think I exclusively like Asian guys… Because Asian men get a bad rap and most non-Asian women just don’t find them attractive.

Regardless, if you do find yourself attracted to a specific race or if you have a history of dating a specific race, it’s something that you should think about consciously!

reblogging again because el-does-china seems to be me - basically-

homorecker:

My fav thing about tumblr is the complete lack of country music it makes me feel like this is where I should be

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aelmai true but it has been a long time. At least a few years but… maybe I still give off the creepy yellowfever vibes haha

no, but Im seriously curious about this anons opinion cause I dont even talk about any other guy but my boyfriend. and yeah my boyfriend is korean but I only love him because he has the best personality (and arms of course).

ugh. I just wanna know~~~~~

mandarince haha yes I know that but I was wondering why the anon thought I am one of those ladies that love kboys. Because I dont consider myself to be part of that group~ so I was wondering about this persons opinion on that.

Anonymous said: u take a lot of selfies. do u think ur pretty or smoething? ur not

goawaywithjae:

geekgirldiva:

7mins-in-heaven-w-dean:

hi there, anon. i didn’t realize i took a lot of selfies. thanks for the info. so, your question was whether i think i’m pretty. you already answered that no, i am not. 

and i have to agree, anon. i don’t think i’m pretty bc i’m not.

i’m fat.

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i always have a double chin.

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i constantly look like i haven’t slept in a week bc of my dark circles

and, i always look sunburnt. idfk why

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i have this white line across my nose that makeup can’t cover up 

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i have tons of wrinkles on my forehead. like what the hell? i’m 25

also, it’s the size of fucking texas

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i still don’t know how to smile in pictures bc i hate my fucking teeth

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my feet are flat. my hips are huge. my boobs are weird. i am covered in stretch marks. my voice is grating. my ears stick out two miles from my head. i am always fucking sweating and i’ve been asked if i was pregnant more times than i can count. 

so, you’re right. i’m not pretty. i can’t stand the way i look.

which is why it’s so fucking important that i post “a lot” of selfies. bc, anon, you’d better fucking believe that if i look in the mirror that day and don’t cringe, i’m gonna take a fucking picture to save that tiny little second. and GOD FORBID i show the world that i posses a little self love every once in a fucking while. 

TO ANYONE READING THIS: DON’T EVER LET SOMEONE MAKE YOU FEEL ASHAMED FOR LIKING THE WAY YOU LOOK—EVEN IF IT’S JUST FOR A SECOND. IF YOU LOOK NICE, YOU TAKE THAT FUCKING SELFIE AND YOU SHOW IT TO THE GOD DAMN WORLD BC THEY DESERVE TO SEE THE GOD/GODDESS YOU ARE!

that beard finally coming in? go ahead, bro. take a selfie.

you finally got that piercing you’ve been wanting? not really my style, but you’re fucking rocking it. take a selfie.

your boobs look awesome in that shirt? take a selfie.

you finally lose or gain that weight you’ve been working on? take a selfie.

your eyeliner look awesome? your new sunglasses make you look like  a celebrity avoiding the paparazzi? you killing that tux? you feel a tiny, rare level of self love? you always on a high level of self love? you just like your face? 

TAKE A MOTHAFUCKING SELFIE!

thanks for the question, anon. this one’s for you.

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This right here is how you respond to a troll when someone online wants to tell you you’re ugly or fat or whathave you.

I think the blogger is very pretty! All those things that she pointed out as flaws? I wouldn’t have noticed them. 

date night tomorrow with the boyfriend

gonna eat jokbal♥ such romance.

I havent seen him in a week which is way to long of course! cant wait for tomorrow.

i-love-mmfd:

c-cassandra:

i think we all know this one person…

i have a few friends who tend to say these things, and it makes me think, if they’re so skinny and somehow “see” themselves as fat, what do they see when they look at me? how disgusting do they think I am? because I actually am fat, It’s not just me feeling my thighs are huge, they are huge, for real, 

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Paperwork is hard!

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A 23 year old girl/woman telling you about her life Seoul.

I had my first bite of Korean culture and hot k-guys in 2010. Then after I began studying Koreastudies in my country of origin I returned in the summer of 2011 to attend the International Summer Semester at Hankuk University of Foreign Studies. After 2 months filled with different kinds of adventure I went back home for a long 5 months before returning to Korea in January 2012. This time I studied at the language Instititue of Sookmyung Womens University until July 2012 but I decided to stay until the 9th of August. I went back home, crying my eyes out because I left my life behind.
But here I am, back in Seoul, living my life. I am a freshman at Hanyang University majoring in International Studies and I love every single bit of it.

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